Moving on

How do I move on ?

Truth is ,they'll never be able to do that if they don't choose to ' Try ' .

People .

They is always a reason for your break-ups .It can be either a fight .A cheat .A lie . A faded feeling .A hatred .A jealousy and many more of those negative vibes .Have you ever wonder how it feels like to be free from those that hurts you ? You claim to love them .You claim to be theirs .But truth has it . Was what you think is what he or she thinks ?

Islam have taught us on how beautiful the word Love is .I remembered upon breaking up with my ex and it feels like asthough my world was crashing down.I gave a scar on my hand .There and here and every single where ,its all HIM that I saw. His laughters .His smiles .

I felt useless .Worthless . .Others was trying to come hrough my way & I pushed them ,Rejected them in the fear that my old one is coming back again .But it never did .Until I took a hold to myself and I found a man not only better , but the best of me .

Allah have promised that if we trust him in the things we do ,he'll give us back something better ,if not ,best .You claim yourself to be a Muslim but when Allah takes someone away from you ,you complain like there is no tomorrow .You said you miss him and such .Have you ever miss the Creator of the world ? 

For the times that you see his/her pictures and you feel like crying .For the times that you miss his/her voice .How adorable it could sound like .How soothing it can be .How perfect it could make your bad day .How sweet when he talks to you with full of expression and love .When you finally feel that you've been loved and cared about .....Think again,What makes you think he/she is feeling the same way looking at your pictures ? What makes you think that he/she will be at home worrying of you ?

There is always a reason to a seperation .Forgive yourself ,then learnt to move on .Why are you fighting with fate when you both are already not meant to be .Through the fights and lowest times ,he or she should have been there instead of leaving you .But why the break up ? Keep yourself busy .Thru the times you started to miss the person ,always remember that missing someone is a part of moving on .Trust in Allah and yourself .Have faith and be strong .He doesnt make you his wife for so long for a reason .She doesn't ask him to be her Husband for so long for a reason .

Jangan melawan takdir .Kalau itu jodoh ,itu jodoh .